I quote from a post I have read before somewhere else (not here)
which I think is full of wisdom that some of you might benefit
from...
"In my world A is the correct concept.
In your world B is the correct concept.
I don't see a need to convert anyone to my world and my concept.
Nor do i see a need to be converted to your concept.
For I dont see a need to win, its only a fight of ego which
is unnecessary.
You are free to believe me or yourself. If you think you are right,
you are right. If you think I am right, you are right too.
You have a choice. If you think I am a experienced person, you are
right. But if you think I am not, you are right too if you view
from your point of view, from your world."
So just let go...if someone wants to "win" so much, let him/her
win...it is not helping the TS, which should be the purpose why we
want to comment here...
TS plight is quite pitiful, but then again, he should rise to
the occasion and meet the challenges head on, instead of taking the
easy way out.
If it happened to me (at 16 y.o.) like in TS case, I doubt I
would sue my dad for the money which I "think" rightfully belongs
to me, the money belongs to the dad, it's up to the dad to give to
whom he wants.